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The Connection Section

Why connection and community is a fundamental element of joy in motherhood.

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How connected do Australian mothers actually feel? The numbers tell a story many of us already know in our bones.

Mothers and loneliness

73% of mothers feel lonely at least a few times a month. 28% feel it every week.

73% of mothers feel lonely at least a few times a month. 28% feel it every week. The Motherhood Index 2026 — Women's Agenda & Medibank, 1,000+ mothers

And the village we were promised?

Only 38% feel part of one.

Only 38% feel part of one. Almost half say they're lonelier now than before they had children. The Motherhood Index 2026 — Women's Agenda & Medibank, 1,000+ mothers

What connection does

Why does this matter for our health — not just our mood?

People with strong social relationships have a 50% greater likelihood of survival.

People with strong social relationships have a 50% greater likelihood of survival. Holt-Lunstad et al., PLOS Medicine 2010 — 148 studies, 308,849 people

And the cost of going without?

Loneliness is linked to around 871,000 deaths a year worldwide.

Loneliness is linked to around 871,000 deaths a year worldwide. That's about 100 every hour. WHO Commission on Social Connection, 2025

Does support from another mum actually help?

High-risk new mums with peer support were half as likely to have postnatal depression.

High-risk new mums who had peer support from another mother were half as likely to have postnatal depression at 12 weeks. 14% vs 25%. Dennis et al., BMJ 2009 — randomised trial, 701 women

What about simply walking together?

Outdoor walking groups lowered blood pressure, resting heart rate and depression scores.

Outdoor walking groups lowered blood pressure, resting heart rate and depression scores. Hanson & Jones, British Journal of Sports Medicine 2015 — 42 studies

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